In a nutshell

Pelvic floor health is vital for women’s organ support, reproductive health, and pain management. Weak pelvic muscles can cause incontinence and organ prolapse. Pelvic floor massage, combined with exercises and good posture, can strengthen these muscles and improve overall well-being.

Table of Contents

• Why is pelvic floor health so important?
• What is pelvic floor massage?
• How to massage pelvic floor muscles?
• Pelvic floor massage guide
• What else, besides massage, can help restore the pelvic floor?
• Questions from the community
• The bottom line

Pelvic floor health is an important aspect of every woman’s life. These muscles play a key role in supporting the pelvic organs, such as the bladder, uterus, and rectum. Weakened pelvic floor muscles may cause you to lose control of urination and bowel movements. Childbirth can also weaken the pelvic floor muscles, which adds to the discomfort of recovery.

However, despite its important role in the body, many women remain unaware of their pelvic health or how to support it, especially after giving birth. So, in this article, we’ll tell you all about why pelvic floor health is important and how to improve it with pelvic floor massage. 

Why is pelvic floor health so important?

The pelvic muscles play an important role in supporting several bodily systems, especially after childbirth. Unfortunately, the impact that weak pelvic muscles can have on a woman’s quality of life is often not discussed enough. For example, a study by Kailey Snyder of postpartum women residing in communities with less than 50,000 residents showed that most women had concerns about their pelvic health and a negative attitude about available resources.

Here are some of the main things that pelvic floor health can affect:

1. Organ support

The pelvic floor supports the pelvic organs, including the bladder, uterus, and rectum. Weak muscles can lead to prolapse—a downward displacement of organs, such as the uterus descending into the vagina, or extending beyond it. 

Your rectum could also move into your vagina, resulting in significant pain and uncomfortable, constant pressure in the pelvis, anus, and back. In this case, painful sensations may intensify with physical activity.

2. Reproductive health

The pelvis plays an irreplaceable role during conception, pregnancy, and childbirth, so keeping these muscles in good shape is important. A weak pelvic floor can make pregnancy even more challenging, whereas a firm and elastic pelvic floor will allow faster recovery after the birth. 

3. Pelvis and back

A weakened pelvic floor can lead to poor posture and increased stress on other muscles, causing chronic pain in the pelvis and lower back. A healthy pelvis and back rely on a strong pelvic floor and many healthy, supportive muscles.

Awareness is everything. When you’re more aware of what exactly is happening in your body and why it’s important, you can respond better. In this case, pelvic floor health is especially crucial after birth. So, now that you know some of the complications that weak pelvic floor muscles can cause, let’s learn what to do about it.

What is pelvic floor massage?

Pelvic floor massage is a therapeutic technique that aims to improve the condition of the muscles and tissues of the pelvic floor. It can help women recover from a variety of health problems and is most often recommended as a postpartum exercise. 

Pregnancy and childbirth often weaken or damage women’s pelvic muscles, and massage helps speed up the tissue healing process and improve blood circulation. It can also help generally strengthen the muscles and improve conditions associated with weakened or dysfunctional pelvic floor muscles, like incontinence.

Pelvic floor massage can sometimes help women with back or lower back pain, too. Chronic pain can be caused by spasms or constant muscle tension, and massage can relieve that pain by relaxing the muscles.

Finally, pelvic floor massage isn’t only useful for treating specific health issues. Strengthening the pelvic muscles can build endurance and improve blood circulation to the genital area, meaning greater sensitivity, better sex, and less risk of injury.

How to prepare for a pelvic floor massage?

A pelvic floor massage is something you perform on yourself, so take some time to get comfortable and prepare. Create conditions for relaxation by choosing a quiet space with soft lights and a comfortable temperature. If you wish, you can light candles to create the atmosphere.

To avoid infections or discomfort, take a shower or wash your pelvic area before the procedure. Be sure to also wash your hands thoroughly, paying special attention to your fingertips and nails. If you have long nails, it is recommended to cut them, as there is a risk of damaging the delicate tissue of the vagina.

Don’t forget to purchase a lubricant that will reduce friction and relieve discomfort.

Take a position that is comfortable for a massage! The most commonly used body positions are:

1. Lying on your back

Lie on your back with your knees bent and legs apart. Use pillows to make your position comfortable, especially making sure to place one under your back. 

2. Lying on your side

If you want to do the massage while lying on your side, bend your top leg at the knee and pull it towards your chest.

If you are very tense, you can massage your stomach a little in a circular motion. It promotes relaxation and allows you to better tune in to the massage.

How to massage pelvic floor muscles?

There are two types of massage techniques, external and internal. We’ll discuss how to perform both, so start where you’re comfortable. Being relaxed is key!

1. External techniques

Targeting painful areas or any muscles that feel sore and/or tense, apply gentle pressure to the lower abdomen and pelvic area in a circular motion. Keep the pressure light at first, just using the fingertips, then gradually work your way to the full hand while applying a little more force. Adjust the pressure as needed—it shouldn’t be painful. 

2. Internal pelvic massage techniques

For this method, you will gently insert your finger into your vagina or rectum. So, apply lubricant to your fingers first to make this more comfortable (a water-based one is best). 

Moving in a circle, apply light pressure to the sides, back, and front of the pelvic floor muscles. If you notice a painful area, or if the muscles seem too tight, try holding pressure on that area for a few seconds, and repeat as necessary. 

If you are having bowel movement problems, inserting your finger into the rectum will be more effective. However, the method may also seem uncomfortable or even painful, and it requires preparation.

Pelvic floor massage guide

Pelvic floor massage is a therapeutic technique that can help relieve tension, improve circulation, and enhance the function of the pelvic muscles. It can be particularly useful for addressing pelvic pain, discomfort during sex, or issues such as urinary incontinence. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to perform a pelvic floor massage safely and effectively.

Understand the pelvic floor muscles

• The pelvic floor consists of muscles, ligaments, and connective tissue that support the bladder, uterus, and bowel. They are responsible for controlling urinary and bowel functions and play a key role in sexual health.
• Before starting a pelvic floor massage, it’s helpful to understand where these muscles are located. These muscles are located at the base of your pelvis and form a “hammock” that supports the pelvic organs.

Set the right environment

• Privacy: Choose a quiet, private space where you feel comfortable and relaxed. 
• Relaxation: You may want to use calming techniques such as deep breathing, soft lighting, or gentle music to help you relax. 
• Warmth: Consider using a warm compress or heating pad on your lower abdomen or pelvic area for about 10-15 minutes before starting. This will help relax the muscles and prepare them for the massage.

Wash your hands

• Before performing any massage, wash your hands thoroughly to avoid introducing any bacteria into the vaginal area.

Lubrication

• Use a water-based lubricant to reduce friction and make the massage morecomfortable. Apply a small amount of lubricant to your fingers or the area you’re massaging.

External pelvic floor massage (perineal area)

• Position: Lie down comfortably on your back with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor, or you can also sit on the edge of a chair.
• Find the perineum: The perineum is the area between your vaginal openingand anus. Gently massage this area using your fingers, applying light, circular motions or gently pressing down.
• Focus on tension: As you massage, focus on areas that feel tense or tight. Apply gentle pressure and hold for a few seconds, then release. You may also use soft tapping or gentle kneading motions.
• Breathe deeply: Deep, relaxed breathing can help release any tension in the pelvic floor muscles. Inhale deeply through your nose and exhale slowly through your mouth.

Internal pelvic floor massage (vaginal massage)

• Prepare: For internal massage, make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed. You can also wear disposable gloves for hygiene purposes.
• Position: Find a comfortable position lying on your back with knees bent or sitting with your feet flat on the floor works well. Some people also prefer to use a squat position to access the pelvic muscles more easily.
• Insert your fingers: Gently insert one or two fingers into the vaginal opening. You should feel the muscles of the pelvic floor, which will feel like a soft, spongy tissue.
• Apply gentle pressure: Gently press on areas of tension or tightness within the pelvic muscles, working your way around the vaginal walls and pressing in and out gently to release tension. Focus on the muscles around the vaginal opening, and if you feel any particularly tender spots, hold gentle pressure there for 10-15 seconds before moving on.
• Massage techniques: You can use a circular motion or apply light, sustained pressure on areas that feel tight. Avoid overexerting pressure—listen to your body, and if anything feels uncomfortable, stop or adjust.

Relaxation and aftercare

• Rest: After completing the massage, take some time to relax. Lie down or sit comfortably for a few minutes to allow the muscles to fully relax.
• Hydration: Drink plenty of water after your massage to help flush out any toxins released during the process.
• Consistency: Pelvic floor massage can be most effective when done regularly, but you should always consult with a healthcare provider before starting any new therapy to ensure it’s appropriate for your situation.

When to seek professional help

If you experience severe pain, discomfort, or difficulty during the massage, it’s important to consult with a pelvic floor therapist or healthcare provider. They can help assess any underlying issues and guide you through safe and effective techniques.

Internal or external massage?

Both massage techniques improve the condition and functionality of the pelvic floor. They both apply to different diagnoses, such as urinary incontinence or prolapse.

However, internal massage is more effective. It allows you to work more accurately with muscles and more effectively influence the site of pain. The best solution, however, is to combine both techniques. External massage is often used as a preliminary treatment.

What else, besides massage, can help restore the pelvic floor?

There are also other ways to restore the pelvic floor. For the fastest recovery, it’s best to combine several methods.

• For example, you can do yoga and meditation. Very moderate exercise aimed at strengthening the body and increasing endurance can help tone muscles.
• Try to maintain correct posture. The correct back position ensures minimal pressure on the vertebrae and pelvis. Try supporting your back with a pillow while sitting.
• Refrain from lifting heavy things if you have fairly weak lower pelvic muscles. Also, do not strain your pelvic muscles too much when defecating and urinating. It may help prevent pelvic floor injury and dysfunction.

Kegel exercises

Kegel exercises for the pelvic floor were named after gynecologist Arnold Henry Kegel. Such exercises can help prevent urinary incontinence or restore better bladder control.

If you want to try the exercise, contract the muscles around your vagina as if you were trying to stop urinating. You should not tense your gluteal or abdominal muscles while performing Kegel exercises.

Squeeze these muscles for 3-5 seconds, gradually increasing the time of contraction as the muscles become stronger. Remember to relax your muscles and give them a short break. The time between contractions should not be shorter than the contractions themselves.

It is better to perform the exercise more than 10 times, even several times a day. It may sound boring, but the exercise can be done almost anywhere! And, if it helps you do it more often, you can do it to the rhythm of any song.

When performing Kegel exercises, it is crucial to breathe evenly and calmly. Avoid holding your breath, as it can lead to unnecessary tension and discomfort. 

Instead, focus on rhythmic breathing: in through your nose, out through your mouth. It will help you relax and concentrate on doing the exercises correctly, which increases their effectiveness. Smooth breathing also promotes better blood circulation in the pelvic floor, improving workout results.

How is organ prolapse treated?

Organ prolapse may sound terrible, and although the diagnosis is indeed disappointing, there are solutions for such cases.

1. Conservative methods. Dramatic changes in lifestyle to healthier alternatives and constant exercise with vaginal balls. Physical therapy with proper exercises also helps to keep organs in the correct position. These methods can be effective, particularly for mild prolapse and sometimes for moderate prolapse, provided they are practiced regularly and not just occasionally.
2. Drug treatment. Patients (only applicable to postmenopausal women) may be prescribed estrogen in the form of creams or tablets.
3. Surgical intervention. Most often occurs when the pelvic floor is severely damaged. Specialists can restore supporting tissues using sutures and implants and, in rare cases, prostheses.

Questions from the community

Is pelvic floor massage safe for everyone?

Generally, yes, but don’t forget about the main danger – nails. A long and beautiful manicure will be a real nightmare if you want to massage the lower pelvis, so don’t forget to trim your nails. Keep your nails short and clean to avoid self-injuries and reduce the chances of carrying bacteria into the vaginal area.Consult with a healthcare provider if you have specific medical conditions or concerns.

How often should I perform a pelvic floor massage?

The answer varies; some people benefit from weekly sessions, while others may need it less frequently. If you feel like you need to do it more often, then go ahead! Regular massages are always the most effective for the health of the lower pelvis.Plus, it helps keep your muscles toned! However, if you doubt the effectiveness of frequent massages, it is better to consult with a healthcare provider.

What if I feel pain during pelvic floor massage?

What if I feel pain during pelvic floor massage?Regular massages can help relieve pain, but mild discomfort is normal. must regulate the pressure yourself, based on your sensations. Still, sharp pain should not occur. Stop if you feel severe pain and consult a healthcare provider.

Can pelvic floor massage help with painful sex?

Yes, pelvic floor massage can help relax tight muscles and reduce discomfort, making sex more enjoyable. However, when massaging internally, be sure to apply enough water-based lubricant to reduce friction and help the muscles relax.

Is pelvic floor massage beneficial during pregnancy?

Absolutely! It can help alleviate pelvic pain and prepare the muscles for childbirth. However, always consult your healthcare provider first.

Can I use tools or devices for pelvic floor massage?

Yes, there are specialized tools like pelvic wands or dilators that can help with internal massage. Ensure they are clean, and use them according to instructions.

The bottom line

Pelvic floor massage is an important element for the full restoration of your body. It is vital to keep your muscles toned to support the many systems and functions of our bodies. Remember to take care of yourself, and always consult your healthcare provider if you feel something is wrong.